With movies and television shows depicting prom in a certain light, several stereotypes have emerged about the evening that are simply not true. For teens who are thinking about going to prom this year, here are a few of the most common myths:
You have to blow your budget
There are many sources out there saying that prom costs the average household a certain amount of money. While some of those figures are astronomically high, there is no reason that you have to spend all your money for one night of fun. To cut down the costs of prom attire, accessories, transportation and other related expenses, get creative. If you need a dress, shop at a thrift store or check out hand-me downs from friends and family. Dig into the back of your closet to see if there’s an old outfit you can refurbish into something great for prom. Whatever you need for prom, you don’t have to spend lavishly to look great and have an awesome time.
Traditions are a must
Prom styles have changed over the years, meaning corsages and boutonnieres may no longer be necessary for the sake of tradition. Don’t feel compelled to follow older trends because you think it’s what you are supposed to do. For example, if you want to wear a dress that isn’t a gown, go for it. There is no reason why you shouldn’t be comfortable or pick out what you want because of tradition. Break free from the expectations of matching outfits or a fancy dinner and try something new or go with what you enjoy.
You must have a date
Long gone are the days when everyone needed a date to head to prom. Now, it has become increasingly popular to hit the prom with a group of friends. You might feel some pressure to get a date, but it’s nothing you should stress over, as you can still go and have a great time with friends. Plus, when you go with friends, you don’t have to worry about having an awkward date while making fun memories with your best friends.
You must arrive in a limo
Transportation methods are all over the place these days, and arriving in the lap of luxury doesn’t need to happen. Renting limos are expensive - even with a large group of people - and can leave you dirt poor after only one night. Instead of blowing your budget and all your savings, think about alternative ways to arrive. Don’t rule out driving together with your friends in the back of Dad’s station wagon if it means you will save hundreds of dollars. Being at prom with your friends is more important than how you get there.
Your attire has to be fancy
While it is true that prom is most often a formal event, you don’t have to dress up like a princess in a tiara or a knight in shining armor. Remember that prom is supposed to be a fun time with your friends, and being comfortable is an important part of that. Don’t allow any pressure of needing to be dressed up stress you out. Pick out clothes that will meet the dress standards, but will also suit you.
You need to go
For a lot of teenagers, prom is no big thing and isn’t something they feel they need to attend. Some might only attend because they have a fear of missing out. When you’re deciding whether or not to go to prom, spend some time thinking about why you want to go and understand that skipping the whole ordeal won’t mean much in the larger aspect of your life. Think about what makes you happy and decide for yourself whether or not to attend.
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